What is Closure to a Grieving Heart?

What is Closure to a Grieving Heart? Isaiah 35:1-10

A couple of weeks ago some good friends asked if the podcast I recently took part in helped me find closure regarding my husband’s death.

My knee-jerk response to the question was to ask, “What do you mean by closure?”

They were uncertain how to answer my question.

This brief conversation has led me to spend some time pondering the concept of closure and how it relates biblically to a heart grieving over the tragic death of a loved one.

Is this truly possible in my circumstances from a biblical point of view?

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Proverbs 25:20 |How a Heavy Heart Began to Sing Again

Singing Again

I’ve previously shared that I didn’t return to public worship for several months after experiencing the tragic death of my husband back in July 2024.

Although I streamed worship services in the privacy of my home during that time, I often crumbled into a pile of anguished tears and sobs during the music portions of the service.

Often, music can be a balm in times of discomfort. But I didn’t experience this.

Instead, all music, not just worship music, made my grief more intense.

Although I physically returned to public worship services in January 2025, just hearing the music still made me crumble into tears. It was exhausting to fight them while in public.

There was no way I could add my voice to the singing or even hum along.

My heart was still too shattered.

There were some who couldn’t grasp why taking part with music was so hard for me.

But God understood.

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Time to Heal From a Broken Heart

This is not a bible study post,  but recent events will probably influence one in the days to come.

Why do I say this?

This past week, I have suffered a tragic loss in my family.  The loss is quite deep and unexpected, and I am uncertain how long it will take to process.  I do know I need to take a break from my writing and let the Lord tend to my broken heart.  I am not sure for how long, but will follow His lead.

Thank you for your patience and understanding as I process my grief and make arrangements with family and friends.

In the meantime, I am meditating on Psalm 77—emphasis mine.

In the Day of Trouble I Seek the Lord

77 To the choirmaster: according to Jeduthun. A Psalm of Asaph.

    I cry aloud to God,

aloud to God, and he will hear me.

    In the day of my trouble I seek the Lord;

in the night my hand is stretched out without wearying;

my soul refuses to be comforted.

    When I remember God, I moan;

when I meditate, my spirit faints. Selah

    You hold my eyelids open;

I am so troubled that I cannot speak.

    I consider the days of old,

the years long ago.

    I said, “Let me remember my song in the night;

let me meditate in my heart.”

Then my spirit made a diligent search:

    “Will the Lord spurn forever,

and never again be favorable?

    Has his steadfast love forever ceased?

Are his promises at an end for all time?

    Has God forgotten to be gracious?

Has he in anger shut up his compassion?” Selah

10    Then I said, “I will appeal to this,

to the years of the right hand of the Most High.”

11    I will remember the deeds of the Lord;

yes, I will remember your wonders of old.

12    I will ponder all your work,

and meditate on your mighty deeds.

13    Your way, O God, is holy.

What god is great like our God?

14    You are the God who works wonders;

you have made known your might among the peoples.

15    You with your arm redeemed your people,

the children of Jacob and Joseph. Selah

16    When the waters saw you, O God,

when the waters saw you, they were afraid;

indeed, the deep trembled.

17    The clouds poured out water;

the skies gave forth thunder;

your arrows flashed on every side.

18    The crash of your thunder was in the whirlwind;

your lightnings lighted up the world;

the earth trembled and shook.

19    Your way was through the sea,

your path through the great waters;

yet your footprints were unseen.

20    You led your people like a flock

by the hand of Moses and Aaron.

Blessings,

Barbara Lynn


[1] The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Ps 77:title–20.

Heartbreak

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Processing Heartbreak

What in your life has caused you to experience heartbreak?

As I write this blog post I am waiting for an update on the status of my 99-year-old grandmother who is in her final hours of life on this earth. If things were “normal” across the globe I would have already boarded a plane to travel 1200 some miles to be with her and other family members. But with COVID-19 restrictions in place my family is having to process heartbreak isolated from each other.

Interestingly, this week’s study  involves a call to process heartbreak.

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